Sunday, May 10, 2009

Do These Cheeks Make Me Look Fat?

Last week, Sam had his eight-week check up. The doctor said that he was in the fiftieth percentile for weight, but we're a little concerned that he is carrying 60 percent of that weight in his cheeks.

Kim and I have been trying to trace where Sam got some of his features. Here's what we've come up with so far:

Bright Blue Eyes: Color (Kim) Shape (Paul)
Perfectly Round Head: Paul
Handsome Chin(s): We're hoping this won't stay plural, but the main chin looks like Kim's
Rosebud Mouth: All Kim
Hair: Too early to tell, but we're optimistic that there are traces of Kim's grandpa's hairline (hope, hope). He had hair that would have made Ronald Reagan jealous. Not that bald isn't cool, we're just hoping he goes through his bald phase early. And only once.
Button Nose: No idea. One theory points to our fertility doctor, Dr. Farkas.
Irresistibly Pinchable Cheeks: Sorry Sam, you are cursed. All Paul on this one. Check out the comparison photos below of Sam vs. his dad back in the day.


Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Sam Meets More of the Tribe

We took Sam to Utah for Easter Sunday, where he met  dozens of Florences: grandparents, great-grandparents, uncles, and aunts.  Oh, and cousins.  Lots and lots of cousins!
Four generations of Florence boys: From left, Giles Jr. (Papa), Giles Sr. (Grandpa), Paul, and Sam.
Abby and Sam.  I love this picture.  I used to baby-sit Abby when she was this age, and now she's holding little Sam.  
Did I mention cousins?  They couldn't wait to hold him (except Henry, who can be seen in the background, sneaking Easter candy). 

Check out Peter's strong move above, and the look in Abby's eye as she sees what he's up to.

Undaunted by Abby's rejection, Peter plots his next move. 

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Mellow Baby

Sam is now eight weeks old, and Kim and I are just emerging from the fog of being the parents of a newborn.

Sam takes a bath almost every night, because when he does, he sleeps nearly twice as long.  Bath time is the highlight of our day.  Tonight Sam was even more mellow than usual.  

PS--Special thanks to guest blogger Andrew, who got on the blog and posted as Samuel because Sam's parents were too out of it to post an update.  Who thinks Andrew should be permanent webmaster of the Hotbed of Genius?  

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

I Am Handsome, Sam I Am.



My name is Samuel David Florence. This blog is now mine. You will hear less about interesting travels and good literature. I have officially taken over the Florence home and will now proceed to take over this blog. I may look small but I know what I am doing. Feel free to try to find a cuter face or more perfect head. Thanks for checking in. Back to eating and sleeping.





Sunday, February 22, 2009

Happy Birthday, Mr. Stegner

From Wednesday's New York Times.  I wish I could have met this man before he died:

PALO ALTO, Calif. — Wednesday was the centennial of Wallace Stegner, the writer and uber-citizen of the West. His friends said he looked like God ought to look, and perhaps not since Eden was first sketched in Genesis has an author been so sternly rhapsodic about the land.

Were Stegner around this week to blow out the 100 candles on his birthday cake, it’s likely he would still be mad at the East Coast Media Conspiracy, and by that he meant this newspaper.

Wallace StegnerWallace Stegner.

“It was The New York Times that broke his heart,” said Nancy Packer, a retired professor of English at Stanford, who knew Stegner well in the time he nurtured writers from Ken Kesey to Larry McMurtry here on the Farm, as the university is known.

Stegner won the National Book Award for“The Spectator Bird,” which The Times never reviewed. He also won a Pulitzer for his best-loved novel, “Angle of Repose,” which the paper only noticed after the award, and then with a sniff.

Even in anointing him the dean of Western writers, The Times couldn’t get his name right, calling him “William” Stegner. He died in 1993 at the age of 84.

Living and writing in the West, Stegner wrote, left him with the feeling that “I gradually receded over the horizon and disappeared.”

The fact that a writer of Stegner’s stature felt ghettoized with the dreaded tag of “regional author” raises the question of whether our national literature is too tightly controlled by the so-called cultural elite -– those people who talk to each other in some mythic Manhattan echo chamber.

Norman Maclean, the Montana native whose gin-clear prose makes “A River Runs Through It” an American treasure, certainly carried some of the Stegnarian chip on his Western shoulder.

After the success of his first book, Maclean was approached in 1981 by an editor at Knopf publishing, which had rejected the novel but was eager to take on his next project. Maclean wrote back in compacted fury.

“If the situation ever arose when Alfred A. Knopf was the only publishing house remaining in the world and I were the sole surviving author,” Maclean wrote, “that would mark the end of the world of books.”

Stegner felt similarly dissed, but he’s aged well — everywhere, perhaps, but Manhattan and Stanford, the cradle of the creative writing program he started.

I asked Tobias Wolff, the author of “This Boy’s Life,” and a former Stegner fellow who teaches at Stanford, if there was a class here devoted to his canon. After all, he wrote 35 books — novels, histories, short stories — and is the subject of two lengthy biographies, including Philip Fradkin’s recent tome, published by Knopf.

Wolff shook his head. “Generally, students don’t read him here,” he said. “I wish they would.”

Everywhere else, though, Stegner has grown in stature. For starters, there are rivers undammed, desert vistas unspoiled and forests uncut in the wondrous West because of his pen.

He influenced several presidents, from Kennedy to Clinton, to see that “something will have gone out of us as a people if we ever let the remaining wilderness be destroyed,” as he wrote.

How many writers of fiction can make that claim?

All over the West, Stegner centers, Stegner prizes and Stegner scholars produce work that follows his life theme: an attempt to get Westerners to make peace with their surroundings.

His prose was never Hallmark, and he was often blunt.

“The West is politically reactionary and exploitive: admit it,” he said in an interview. “The West as a whole is guilty of inexplicable crimes against the land: admit that, too. The West is rootless, culturally half-baked. So be it.”

This product of the hardscrabble, boom-and-bust, wandering man frontier — his dad made a living playing poker and selling bootleg liquor one year — has given us two of the most famous lines about the West. Both are grounded in optimism.

He called the West “the geography of hope,” despite many misgivings, and he dreamed of a day when Westerners would fashion “a society to match the scenery.”

Stegner certainly had the writerly credentials — Ph.D, a teaching stint at Harvard, short stories published in all the right journals read by all the right people. But he chose to make the cultural elite come to him.

And he grounded himself, spending nearly half his life in the Palo Alto foothills above Stanford.

On his 100th birthday, it’s worth remembering another lesson of his life — to choose authenticity over artifice. “If you don’t know where you are,” he said, paraphrasing the writer Wendell Berry, “you don’t know who you are.”

He knew — the where and the who.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Cidade Maravilhosa

Last month I spent a couple of days in Rio de Janeiro. It was the first time I had been back there since the summer of 2003, when I lived there for three months.

One night I went back to my favorite place in Rio, a big rock called Arpoador (Harpooner) that juts out into the Atlantic Ocean, dividing the beaches of Copacabana and Ipanema. I used to go there as often as I could to watch the sunset, and I managed to get there just in time to see it again.

There were probably 200 people scattered around the big rock. Some were fishing, but most were there, like me, to watch the sun set over the Dois Irmaos, or Two Brothers, the massive rocks that loom over the southern end of Rio.
As I sat there waiting, the sound of voices and laughter floated down and mixed with the noise of the waves crashing against the rocks below us, before drifting into the evening sky. But as the sun got closer to the horizon, the voices grew hushed and the crowd was quiet and we all stared in silence as the fiery globe disappeared into the sea.

Then, just as the top of the sun dropped below the horizon line, the whole crowd erupted in approval, and the evening air was filled with applause and cheers in appreciation of the show.

I love Brazil.

(The top photo is taken from my hotel window. The hotel was under renovation, so the whole building was wrapped in a semi-transparent gauze-like material. The photo that came out of it reminded me of a painting my brother might do.)


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Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Thanksgivings Past

Last week we spent Thanksgiving at the beach in Ventura and it was fantastic. As we were sitting down for dinner looking out over the ocean, I thought of Khartoum, Sudan, where I spent the first Thanksgiving of our marriage. I was working for USAID and left two weeks after our Honeymoon for six weeks in Sudan, where we were working on the Darfur crisis.

While in Sudan, we all lived in a house a few miles from the U.S. Embassy, which I called "Real World Khartoum." One man, Jim, had been there for months, and cooking was his outlet. He decided to prepare a big Thanksgiving dinner for all of us, and and he even ordered a Turkey for $300 that was flown in all the way from Amsterdam on the biweekly KLM flight.

Although the Turkey made the flight, it never made it beyond the airport in Khartoum, where overzealous Sudanese customs agents suspected our prize cargo of carrying bird flu and incinerated our turkey (along with Jim's last hope at sanity). Somehow a frozen Turkey from Amsterdam was a bigger threat and a higher priority for them than genocide in Darfur...

Since the embassy was closed on Thanksgiving, we took a rare day off (we were working seven days a week) and organized a trip to some pyramids along the Nile at a place called Meroe up near the Egyptian border. So I spent Thanksgiving morning on camelback riding through the Sudanese desert.

And when we got home, Jim had managed to find some chicken in a little market in Khartoum and we had a fine Thanksgiving after all. I don't think I would recommend Thanksgiving (or Spring Break, for that matter) in Khartoum, but it made for a memorable holiday.